Four Reasons Why Intelligent People Find It Difficult To Love

Love is a beautiful thing if one can find it and sustain it. To love and to be loved require strength and emotion. Psychologically, love takes away your body power and replaces it with feelings. In this way, your brain system is divided into different parts. You can no longer be monopolistic in your decisions. Your structure must change and you will  have to bend your heart low.  Love is sweet but not easy to find. 

Considering the theory of psychology, human beings feel differently. There are many explainable things that determine our psych.  Trait will always spread across our psych and idiosyncrasies. We can't feel the same and we can't think the same. Some are logical while some are flexible. Sagittarians are not rules by emotion. You will have to impress them and pass their equations before you can find a space in their heart. These types of people have higher IQ. 

In this article I will pen four reasons why intelligent people find it hard to find soulmates.

Intelligent people are one of those people who find it extremely difficult to get into relationships. Not because they are not ideal or they have some faults, instead they choose to use left side of the brain more than the right side which usually belongs to the emotional side of human.

1.They are comfortable being independent.

They feel secured physically and emotionally on their own. There is no one around them who’s making their lives complicated. They can make any kind of decision without putting someone’s feelings into consideration. They are already comfortable with who they are, with what they have, and with where they are. They don’t need someone else to make their lives complete.

 2 .They don’t like restrictions.

Intelligent people do not want to be deprived of their freedoms. They hate being put in a box. They find it hard to search for someone who can understand that sometimes they need space. They need to own their time. They need to do what they love and go to places they want by themselves once in a while. They don’t like someone who’s imposing restrictions on them. And they don’t like someone to tell them what to do, even if it seems like they’re the most perfect person for them.

3. Safety First

There is one thing all intelligent people do, and that is think. They think about the present and future problems. They analyze everything and all this analyzing and thinking leads to real relationship problems.

It is hard to enjoy time with a person if one is thinking about all that can go wrong in the future. What if my date is not a perfect match? What if we get a dog and break up? Who will get the dog? What if my date is really a closet serial killer? He is coming off a little narcissistic.

4. They don't compromise

Intelligent minds have very high standard set for them and they don't and won't compromise and lower their standards for you. Might sound rude, but that s the truth. They believe it's better to avoid than looking down. You got to be really attractive to spin their heart round. They prefer to be alone than with someone whom they consider less attractive.

I will drive this article to a safe place by saying that intelligent people have emotion but it is not stable. They deviate from their feelings whenever insecurities waylay them. In the end, they don't want to love because to them love doesn't give them the shield they need. Intelligent people cannot solve the other side of love. 

"Brilliant people solve problem but intelligent people avoid it"- this is the feeling of intelligent people when it comes to love.

If you come across these special people, create an ambience that can resonate with their personalities and embrace individualism.  

Article Written by Alex O.O.